Independent · Ireland · 18+
Casual dating in Ireland, with the small print read for you
Honest reviews with prices in euro, step-by-step cancellation guides, dating over 40 and 50, and first-date guides from Dublin to Belfast. What a site costs after the trial, and how to leave it, before you sign up.
AI-generated · illustrativeAoife, 40Chat first
AI-generated · illustrativeSiobhán, 42Meet soon
AI-generated · illustrativeNiamh, 41Keep it discreet
AI-generated · illustrativeCiara, 32Chat first
AI-generated · illustrativeOrla, 33Meet soon
AI-generated · illustrativeRóisín, 39Chat first
AI-generated · illustrativeSinéad, 37Keep it discreet
AI-generated · illustrativeSaoirse, 36Meet soon
AI-generated · illustrativeClodagh, 38Keep it discreet
AI-generated · illustrativeGráinne, 36Chat first
Illustrative AI-generated images: these people are not members of any site we list. Ad.
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Last checked 19 October 2026 by the Ireland Flings editorial team.
At a glance
The sites we cover, compared
Sorted by transparency score. “Not confirmed” means we couldn't verify it on the brand's own pages, so we don't guess.
| Site | Type | Score | Prices public | Cancel online | App |
|---|---|---|---|---|---|
| Ashley Madison | For people in relationships | 10.0 | Yes | Not confirmed | Yes |
| Victoria Milan | For people in relationships | 10.0 | Yes | Yes | Yes |
| SDC | Open-minded community | 10.0 | Yes | Yes | Yes |
| Tinder | Mainstream dating app | 10.0 | Yes | Yes | Yes |
| SaucyDates | Casual dating site | 10.0 | Yes | Yes | Yes |
| Feeld | Open-minded community | 8.6 | Yes | No | Yes |
| AdultFriendFinder | Casual dating site | 7.7 | No | Yes | Not confirmed |
| BeNaughty | Casual dating site | 7.7 | No | Yes | Not confirmed |
| Illicit Encounters | For people in relationships | 7.7 | Yes | No | Not confirmed |
| C-Date | Casual dating site | – | Not confirmed | Not confirmed | Not confirmed |
Over 40 · over 50
Back out there, at your own pace
Most of the questions we get from Ireland start with an age. Two guides written for it, and an over-40 and over-50 section in every city guide.
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What we do differently
Useful before you sign up, and after
Cancellation guides first
Every site we cover gets a step-by-step guide to stopping the renewal, on the web and through Apple or Google, with what its terms say about the EU cooling-off period.
Open →The real cost in euro
A cheap trial is only half the price. Our calculator shows what three months costs if you forget to cancel.
Open →Scores you can check
Five facts, checked on each brand's own pages. The score is their plain average, and the maths is published.
Open →Dublin to Belfast, for real
Real places for a first drink, sections for over-40s and over-50s, and how to get home after the last Luas or bus.
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Guides
Start with the question you have
- Casual dating in IrelandCasual dating in Ireland: how to pick a site that's straight with you
- Hookup appsHookup apps in Ireland: which ones fit, and what they really cost
- Dating over 40Dating over 40 in Ireland: getting back out there without the guesswork
- Dating over 50Dating over 50 in Ireland: sites, singles events and staying safe
- Discreet datingDiscreet dating in Ireland: keeping your private life private
First dates, city by city
Where to meet, and how to get home
Questions people ask
Is Ireland Flings a dating site?
No. We're an independent guide. We don't host profiles or messages. We review dating sites and apps used in Ireland, explain how to cancel them, and point you to good places to meet.
How do you make money?
Some links are adverts: if you join a site through them we may earn a commission. They're labelled Ad before you click, and they never change our scores or the order of our lists.
Do you invent ratings or events?
No. Each brand gets five sub-scores tied to facts we checked on its official pages, and the overall score is their plain average. Events are only listed with a date when we read that date on the organiser's own page.
Is Belfast covered?
Yes. Belfast is in Northern Ireland, which is part of the UK, so prices there are in pounds sterling and UK rules apply. Our Belfast guide says so wherever it matters.
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